[Muhammad Haroon; Karachi]

One way to enhance your self-esteem is to imagine yourself as successful and graceful. Practice this daily. And while you remind yourself of this very fact, take on the toughest of challenges with confidence and grace in the world of imagination, in your dreams. For instance if you fear public speaking then imagine speaking confidently in front of a gathering and by doing this many times in a day, a positive attitude will surely build up. This reinforcement helps to make our imagination positive which in turn leads to a healthy self-esteem. By imagining being successful we start to expect this in real life too and undoubtedly our belief that ‘we can do it’ does indeed bring about success. People feel insecure when they give in to their fears on the cost of their dreams. Really; when we become so scared that we no longer care about our dreams then the feeling of insecurity traps us. Anyways, do not bring any doubt in your heart as when we shall start considering ourselves lucky then the doors of success and luck start opening.